Tuesday, January 1, 2008

its finally 2008!

well 2007 was pretty tough for me the in the beginning as there were many changes i had to go through such as, the O level results, the new school, new enviroment and new friends. i was even working at that time. the overall was different back in my secondary school days where life was freaking boring. Everyone studied the same thing and exams were a torture.
looking back, im so glad all these secondary school nightmares are over and im currently enjoying my course, this is the FIRST time i admit to love studying.lol. unbelievable huh? i think so too.
well atleast now i know what i want and im loving it.=)

1) i feel that knowing what you want is the most important thing in life.can you imagine if your life didnt have any goals or targets to achieve, you'll just be living/wasting one day at a time and then you'll get all emo and think that life sucks as theres no meaning to life. -_-
no goals, no targets makes one feel lazy and useless. so step out that bad habit and start thinking of personal targets to achieve.

2) having your particular goal in mind, you need to come up with a list of steps to achieve it. you are no wonderperson, and you cant achieve your goals without doing anything. =) this process is called planning. every step has to be realistic. if its too hard, it makes one feel pathetic and frustrated, eventually giving up the thought of achieving which therefore brings one back to "square one", the beginning.

3) although you have goals in which you want to achieve, you have to makes sure that you stick by it ALL THE TIME. whats the point of announcing your goals to everyone and then clean forget about it the next minute? it is a similar scenario to when your mum is nagging at you, whatever that she says goes into one ear and then comes out of the other, skipping the "thinking process" in the brain. in other words, you simply dont care much.

Last but not least, is the importance of ones attitude.
no matter how well defined your steps to your goals are, if you dont have the right attitude, all that you have planned to achieve are going no where but down the drain.
having a postive and determined attitude is vital in goal achieving. determination makes you feel that nothing is impossible and therefore it gives you the drive to carry on. being positive is like when you are happy, you will feel at ease and then able to do anything wholeheartedly.

every STEP is important,if you lose one, other steps will be affected as well.
happy planning! =)

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